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Paul J Furmato Date of Birth: October 3, 1963 Department: Institutional Sales Trader Position: Vice President Paul Furmato, 37, was a resident of Colts Neck, New Jersey for the past 8 years. He was born and raised in Hillsdale, New Jersey and graduated from Pascack Valley High in 1982. He graduated from Florida Institute of Technology in 1986. He fell in love with his wife, Cindy, at this college and they were married on September 19, 1987. Paul and Cindy made their home in Colts Neck where thy raised their three beautiful children, Paul Jr., Stephanie, and Theresa. Paul is, also, survived by his parents, Joseph and Margaret of Point Pleasant, his brothers Joseph Jr., of Point Pleasant and Mark of Brielle, and sisters Carol DeBenedictis, of Point Pleasant and Jill Keough of Westwood. Fishing was a life-long passion of Paul’s. He had a love for the sea. He started fishing as a young boy in Point Pleasant with his brothers and continued fishing throughout his life with his entire family. His boat, Quality Time, won the South Jersey Yacht Tournament in Cape May, New Jersey last year. Winning this tournament with his crew, Mark, Joseph, Drew, and Brian, was one of his happiest and proudest moments. Paul enjoyed his work as a Vice President and an Institutional Sales Trader for Cantor Fitzgerald. He had a great deal of respect and admiration for the men he worked with and for his accounts. Besides work, Paul dedicated himself to coaching his son, Paul Jr.’s baseball and basketball teams in Colts Neck. He wanted all of the boys on his team to learn and build confidence in themselves through playing sports. He called each boy his “buddy” and rooted for them as if they were his own children. Paul was a devoted son, grandson, brother, husband, father, employee, coach and friend. He was a man of few words and simple needs who was always kind, caring, and strong. He was loving, tolerant and humble and sought out perfection in everything he did. His family was his strength and his love. He lived to give all of us everything he could. We will miss him always.
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Monthly Archives: April 2014
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Steven Furman Date of Birth: September 13, 1960 Our family mourns the loss of a kind, honest, generous, brilliant, principled and religious man, and the father of four children. Steven joined Cantor Fitzgerald’s TradeSpark division in April 2001 to build their growing electricity options brokerage business. He had been an energy options trader on the New York Mercantile Exchangefor 13 years prior to that. Steven was the busiest person I ever knew. He awoke at 4:45 AM to daven before work, and usually didn’t return home until 7 pm. I remember when he once briefly shut down his internet account, explaining to me that he could make better use of the time he had been spending online reading and answering email. Yet he always found time to help others, and that was what my brother was all about. He was insistent on doing “mitzvahs” for people. He received great pleasure from this, and from his extremely charitable ways. He wouldn’t have had it any other way. I think back to the innocence of our childhood, when my brothers and I played all those board and card games. We were a competitive bunch ! I eventually realized it was nearly impossible for me to win any card game when Steven played because he was a genius, and flat outplayed me. I didn’t always accept the outcome graciously…. He was much humbler in victory than I was in defeat. It’s hard to believe I am writing about my brother in the past tense. Who will calculate ( in less than 2 minutes) whether I should buy or lease my car, or refinance my home ? Who will recite lines from the Odd Couple “Password” episode just to hear me chuckle ? (“Everyone knows Aristophanes wrote a play called “The Birds.” “Everyone but ME, Felix!”). Who will remind me that tomorrow will be a better day when I’ve had a lousy one ? Steven was 2 days shy of his 41st birthday when g-d took him from us. May he rest in peace.
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Clement Fumando Date of Birth: February 18, 1942 Position: Operations Officer, Foreign Exchange Kathy Fumando was 13 when she met the man who would later become her husband, Clem Fumando. After a 40-year romance, which included 2 sons, Gregory and Stephen Fumando, 2 grandchildren, Brittany and Stephen Jr., Clem was taken away from the people who absolutely adored him. He was a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. He worked for Cantor for 11 years. He will always be in our hearts. We miss him and love him.
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Claudia Foster Date of Birth: April 28, 1975 Dear sis, Wow, I have finally come around to setting up your page. A year has gone by and I miss you so much. I tend to believe that you are in Staten Island and your too busy to come visit me. Sis, I am so sorry that I could not help you out, even though I was 2 minutes away. They would not let me go near your building because of the evacuation they were trying to do. Diana and I were standing like dos pendejas outside looking up praying for a miracle. Claudia, I kept blaming myself for jinxing that event. Remember what I told you the day before when I saw you for the last time. I had asked you what would you do if the building caught fire? And your response was that was not going to happen, no one was stupid to try to attempt it and that you had the best view in NYC and people were jealous. I just laughed it off. You walked me to the elevator bank and told me you loved me. I just want you to know that I was kicking myself as the elevator doors closed by not telling you those words in return. How I wish I could turn back time and have you here with me on this earth. I miss talking to you and telling you my ridiculous stories and you would just listen and laugh your brains off. Since you have passed I have been trying to keep my head and move forward but it is so hard to do that when you’re constantly reminded about that tragic day. Everyone misses you down here especially mami, as you already know she has not laid you to rest. Claudia, you will always be my big sis and I am just substituting for you because you used to tell me when we were little you are #1. So I am keeping you #1 in my heart. Also, thanks for visiting me in my dreams you have no idea how happy I get to see you one more time so if you can come back to me again in my dreams that would be great. One last thing tell Grace that she is missed as well. Take care sis, I love you and never forget that. See you when I see you and remember your IT. Love, Sylvia
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Christopher Forsythe Date of Birth: October 19, 1956 Department: Foreign Exchange Position: Money Broker Chris, we love you. You will always be in our memories. “God hath not promised Skies always blue, Flower strewn pathways All our lives through, God hath not promised Sun without rain, Joy without sorrow Peace without pain, But God hath Promised Strength for the day, Rest for the labor Light for the way, Grace for the trials Help from above, Unfailing love and sympathy, Undying love…” From, wife, Tessie Molina and children, Jose and Kirsten
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Timothy J Finnerty Date of Birth: July 15, 1968 Department: Emerging Markets- Repos Position: Partner and Senior Broker in charge of EM-Repos When you think of Tim, one always sees his smiling grin. That was Tim, a happy sociable guy, and “extrovert from day one” as his father has said. He loved people and people loved him back. You couldn’t help it. His former coach has said, “Tim wore you down with niceness.” It couldn’t have been said better. Tim was always one step ahead in thinking about and helping others, ensuring that everyone he knew and loved had what they needed or liked-from a good bottle of wine to a decorative snowman floral arrangement for a Christmas table; from starting a young nephew’s college fund to beginning a good card game. He even saw when a tired mom needed a “kid break.” Tim was the reason his childhood friends stayed together to this day, their strong link was “Finn,” and without doubt, this link will remain because of him. A true family man, tim enjoyed countless family gatherings, as well as annual family vacations. He mostly cherished the vacations he shared with his wife, “quality time” as they referred to them. Tim was also the family’s barbecue king, being counted on for the juiciest burgers, flavored with his enthusiasm. His ways were all selfless, a devoted husband, constantly concerned about his wife, a son who loved his Dad’s company, reminiscing their fondest memories, a basketball coach for youths for whom he was eager to teach the game, an uncle that was known to become one of the kids and have fun. In fact, Tim really enjoyed a good time. This was clearly evident at many friend and family’s weddings when he took center stage with his crazy dances. Tim was more than thoughtful, he saw and acted upon beyond which was just in front of him. He exuded generosity, and humbleness as well. As wonderful a man as he was, never did he have a “better than you” attitude. Surely his goodness rubbed off on those around him. You couldn’t help but to better yourself in his presence. We know he is smiling and grinning down from heaven and is seeing the wondrous ripple effect of his goodness, only to have been accelerated by his absence. To have known Tim is truly to have known love. We’ll miss him dearly but will never, ever be without him. For Timothy Joseph Finnerty, we will continue to spread the love he shared in order to make this world a better place. Tim is a great guy. He would always be there for you. He was a sweet guy and he still is. Even though you can’t see him he will always be in your heart. He died because he was good for Earth. We will never forget about you Tim. You’re a great guy. – Written by Tim’s 8 year old nephew Kieran Cassillo.
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Louis Fersini Jr Date of Birth: June 24, 1963 Position: Municipal Bond Broker Louis was a wonderful husband and amazing father to our 4 children. He loved life to the fullest. Everyday was a party for Lou. He was always smiling and laughing. He enjoyed his family and friends with all his heart. Everyone was always welcome at “Uncle Lou’s.” We miss him so much. There is such emptiness in our lives, but we know his big smile is shining over us to help us get through this. You never truly appreciate someone until they are gone. Well, Louis was appreciated while alive, for being so alive, and we certainly appreciate our hero even more now. God Bless our guardian angel!
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David Ferrugio Date of Birth: February 11, 1955 Department: Mortgage Dept., IOPOS Position: Bond Broker, Manager My husband Dave, my love, my life and my soul, was wonderful, energetic, full of life. His children, his greatest joy. His family was his pride. Dave wanted to see everyone happy. He loved his job, the people he worked with. He was a special guy with special qualities. Everyone loved to hang out with Dave. Dave always made you feel good about yourself. He had a contagious laugh that filled the room. He always gave so much of himself, always wanting to help. He has touched the lives of so many. On a night sitting in the back yard with the people he loved, smoking a cigar, having some laughs, he would say “It doesn’t get better then this”. That is what Dave is all about, loving the simple pleasures of life always with a smile. I am so blessed to have had 24 years of my life with Dave, raising three beautiful children who cherish him. He has taught me so much, to believe in myself, never taking anything for granted, to enjoy life, and most of all to love. Our lives will never be the same. Dave’s love for my children and I will carry us through the days ahead. His memory and his love will forever stay alive through all of us. God only knows my heart will never mend. But for my Dave I will keep my head up, because I know he would not want it any other way. You are our guardian Angel. Dave, “I always saw you in my life, my strength, you will always be a part of me and everywhere I go, there you’ll be, for always.” Here’s to you KID. We will love you always,
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Judy Hazel Fernandez Date of Birth: January 6, 1974 Department: Human Resources Position: Benefits Specialist Judy was born on January 6, 1974 in Dagupan City, Philippines and with her mom, brother and sister, came to the United States on June 12, 1976. She started her kindergarten in Parsippany and attended grade school at Emma Arleth, high school at Sayreville War Memorial High and Rutgers University where she majored in Biology. Prior to her joining Cantor Fitzgerald as an HR Specialist, she worked for Solomon Smith Barney and Metuchen Bank. She had always wanted to work in New York City, not only because of the prestige of being a New Yorker, but also for the excitement that New York brings. Judy was a very special daughter that a parent could ever hope for. Truly, she was a precious gift from Heaven. She was kind, amiable, affable, compassionate and very gentle in her disposition. Above all, she was a caring, ever-loving and thoughtful daughter. Judy was very supportive and protective of her family. She stood on solid ground to defend her family from whoever tried to malign the clan. Judy was also a classic example of fair play and straightforwardness. She did not want people unjustly treated. And, she had no regard for people who are abusive. All her life, she truly believed in the Motto, “Don’t do unto others, what you don’t want others to do unto you.” To her friends, Judy stood all head and shoulders. She was extremely compassionate to them. She listened to their problems, and if help was needed, she was always ready to help in any way. Our Judy was instinctively an intuitive person. She knew and felt when you were down. And she was always around to give words of encouragement, support and comfort to lift a sagging spirit. Now, our special Judy is gone, but her beautiful memories will linger on and live forever…. We love you Judy very much and you will be terribly missed. Love, Pops (Fernandez)
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Bernard Favuzza Date of Birth: April 13, 1949 Position: Broker, Gov’t Agencies Bernie was a wonderful man with a wonderful smile. He was outgoing, funny and he made friends wherever he went. He was a son, a brother, a husband, a father, and most recently a grandfather. The job he loved most. He grew up in Queens, NY. He married his wife, Linda in 1969 and had two daughters, Donna and Laura. He was a big ice and roller hockey player in his younger days. When we moved from Queens to Suffern, NY he became a big Suffern High School hockey fan. He knew all the players and all the parents. In recently speaking with a player I said, “I bet he always had some piece of advice for how to improve your playing.” To which he replied, “Yes he always did, and we always listened.” Bernie was a smart man. He was the person I went to for any question I had about anything because if he didn’t know the answer he knew someone who did. He was also willing to go out of his way to help people. Building a model railroad for a co-worker whose child was suffering from leukemia. Helping a new neighbor build his deck. Putting in a good word for a friend of mine who was looking for a position in a company where he knew people. He was also an avid model railroader; a tradition in his family that wasn’t so well received by my sister or me. He would spend countless hours working on a giant layout that he himself said would never be finished. When his grandson was born in 1999 he was so excited. He finally had someone (a boy) to pass down his engineer’s cap to. He bought his grandson his first set of trains shortly after his birth and, when he started to take his first steps he watched intently, anxious for the day he could put him in skates and start teaching him the basics. He had many friends. The words most often used to describe him are funny, outgoing, honest and smart. We miss him so much now. We miss his smile and his laugh. I especially miss the connection he made with my son. I miss how happy he was every time they were together. Now we can only hope that he rests is peace and we will do what we can to keep his spirit and memory alive. I love you, Dad, and miss you terribly. Love your daughter, Donna
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